Trust me, it didn't take more than a few times of these natural consequences before he was cured of his forgetful and non-chalant ways. It was harder for me I'm sure. Knowing that he is upset or seeing him cry and knowing I can just fix it in an instant is a hard urge for a mother to fight. But it was for his own good. He has become a very independent middle-schooler. [Even if he did forget his lunch today! It's only the second time this year. I won't take him the lunch, he'll have to figure something out, and he will.] Of course he still uses the list I've posted since kindergarten to help him get ready in the morning. Right down to "put on socks" and "brush your teeth" and "put your lunch in your backpack." Perhaps it's just habit to check the list now.
I didn't agree with everything in these books and I'm sure you won't either. But even if you can find one useful technique, method, or mantra, it's worth it for a happier family. I always say if I use one recipe regularly out of a cookbook, then it was worth the purchase :). I particularly like Ending The Homework Hassle. If I remember correctly, his books are a bit Christian influenced with bible references, so if that is a problem for you it's unfortunate because you'll be missing out on some great advice. But, I thought I would put it out there.
